Does first time sex painful for boys? – This is one of the most common questions that parents are asking themselves when their little boy is about to go on his first date with his girlfriend. It is quite normal and very exciting for both the boy and his girl that they are about to enter into a very different world where there will be no more ‘getting used to the things’. So, if your little boy feels that his first experience of sex is painful, then there must be something wrong in his physical makeup or in his hormonal balance.
If you want to find out whether your son has been physically abused before or not (if indeed he has not), it would be good to check his behavior at home while he is being introduced to his girlfriend’s family. This is probably the best way to find out the real reason behind his first time sex pain. Also, doctors usually advise their patients to wait a few days before having sex, because during this time the body tends to heal, mentally as well as physically. But if your little boy had an argument with his mother or sister over the previous night or so and got angry and upset the day before, then it may also be a cause for concern.
Why does first time sex sometimes feel painful for boys? Well, one of the biggest contributing factors towards this is psychological imbalance. But, there are a number of things that can actually make sex painful for boys. One of them is extremely low sperm count, or abnormally slow sperm movement. Also, infections, STDs, and hormone imbalance are also some of the factors which cause the sensation of pain.